Meet a senior night carer...Abraham

Before I settled in the UK in 2004, I worked as a mechanical draftsman in Saudi Arabia. Although I had a promising career, moving here presented new challenges. It wasn’t easy to find work in my field, so I made the leap into caregiving—a decision I never anticipated would be so rewarding. It has transformed my life in ways I never expected.

I’ve witnessed a few transitions of the home over the years, but the high level of care remains the same. Milward House is more than just a care home; it’s a sanctuary where our ‘family members’ (those who live with us) are cherished like dear friends.

Working here means I am part of one big family. The unique and nurturing environment that the staff and family members have created in the home is what has kept me here all these years. I am extremely grateful.

My job can sometimes be quite intense. I vividly recall a night when a family member collapsed suddenly. Staying calm and acting quickly was crucial. I called for help and began CPR. Those moments are both terrifying and profound, reminding me of the importance of being vigilant and prepared within my role.

Working at Milward House has changed my perspective on the care sector. Our teamwork is extraordinary; when someone faces difficulties, we lift each other up, creating a strong support system. This collective spirit fosters a sense of belonging and camaraderie.

Outside of work, I treasure my time with wife and children. Family is everything to me. Growing up in an Anglican household in India, I attended Sunday school with my family, where I learnt about Christian values. My father, a dedicated farmer, still manages our family’s five acres of land, which includes rubber trees, coconut, and black pepper.