Tuesday 12th November 2024
Meet an ACE Facilitator...Simon
Tyler Sewell-Nicholas
Simon is ACE (Activities and Community Engagement) Facilitator at Finborough Court in Great Finborough, where he supports ‘family members’ (those who live with us) through engaging activities that foster joy, connection, and companionship
Simon’s journey to becoming an ACE Facilitator has been unexpected. Before taking on this role, Simon spent over 25 years as a private music teacher, first offering lessons in students' homes and later teaching in three local primary schools, covering everything from ukulele to musical history. Despite finding fulfilment in teaching, Simon felt a growing desire to do something more impactful, especially in a way that connected faith, music, and as a community.
It was this sense of calling that led him to Finborough Court. Initially, it was Simon’s wife who interviewed for the role, but after some consideration, she decided not to pursue it. “I jokingly said, if you don’t want it, I’ll do it,” Simon recalls and, soon after, he found himself stepping into the ACE Facilitator role.
In his position, Simon can blend his love of music with his faith and commitment to serving others. One of the highlights of his work has been the gift of a piano from a former pupil who, after losing his wife, wanted the instrument to bring joy to others. Simon and the family members often gather to play and sing together, creating a sense of community. “Every day, we get to play this lovely instrument, lifting our voices together. Some days, it’s just one or two of us singing. On others, we have nearly everyone joining in. It brings joy to everyone,” he explains.
Simon’s favourite hymn is ‘Guide Me, O Thou Great Jehovah’, a piece that holds deep spiritual meaning for him. Though he prefers not to “overuse the song”, the hymn is a regular choice during the home’s daily devotionals. “The words are powerful, and it brings peace to the family members. Music, in that sense, is something they all connect with; it has a way of lighting up their faces,” he says.
Beyond music, Simon organises a wide range of creative activities for the family members, including an art display for a recent birthday celebration. “The [living] room was transformed. It felt like a professional gallery,” he says. Simon recalls walking into the room and seeing the family members' artwork as a deeply meaningful moment. “It was peaceful, and the atmosphere was beautiful. It felt like we were standing in a top gallery in London, but with art that was far more meaningful.”
Simon approaches his role as an ACE Facilitator with a spontaneous and flexible mindset, often drawing on activities that he used with his students. “Sometimes they work brilliantly, and sometimes they fall flat,” he laughs, remembering a space-themed activity that didn’t quite resonate. “But the next day, something simple might bring everyone together. It’s about finding joy in each moment and being adaptable."
Outside of work, Simon balances a busy family life with his two young daughters, his church duties, and his professional responsibilities. Despite the challenges of finding personal time, he makes space for faith through evening family prayers and weekends together. “Time is my biggest struggle, especially with church responsibilities and work,” he admits. However, he finds that these moments of connection help keep faith at the centre of his life. “My daughters especially love our nightly prayers.”
As Simon reflects on his role, he concludes, “There’s never been a day where I’ve thought I don’t want to come back. In fact, I find myself coming in early because I love it so much.”
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