Sharing life... as a Christian community

Many years ago, I was introduced to Sarah, a widow without siblings or children. As a family of six, we welcomed Sarah into our home; she ate, watched television, went shopping, came to church with us and came to family parties. I realise that not everyone has this much time for older people, but here are a few things that everyone could have a go at, to connect with the older people around them.

1. Buddy up a younger person with an older person.
Encourage the young person to catch up with their buddy after the service every Sunday.
“I wanted to see John as I hadn’t seen him for ages. It was lovely, we just chatted for a long time.” – Catherine, 10

2. Help at home.
Things going wrong or needing doing at home can be overwhelming. As a church you could have a list of reputable tradespeople and/or people at church who can help with certain things.
“It’s great to have Ruth, who has the energy and ability to do the jobs that I can’t.” – Mary

3. Share time and activity together.
For many activities, age is no barrier. Who doesn’t love a piece of cake with friends? Or playing a good game?
"I like visiting Norah because she always has biscuits. I like playing games with her because she falls asleep, and I win!” – Hannah, 6

4. Find some smart people.
Smart technology is so important for older people to connect with the outside world, so identifying some smart people from your congregation who are willing to help those who are struggling with their television, phone or tablet would be of great help.
"It would be of great help if a teenager offered their knowledge and patience to help me with my phone.” – David

5. Value the contributions of older people.
Although they may no longer run the parent and toddler group or help with the youth group (although some might!) there is still so much that older people can contribute to the life of the church. Ask them for their advice or prayer or enjoy their home-made goodies.
“The gifts made by our craft and chat group are so meaningful. One Easter we received a beautifully stitched ‘cross for our pocket’.” – Mandy